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Nayi inyaniso ethe cwaka: sele uphethe idatha yobomi bakho. Uyazi, ndaweni ithile, ukuba ulala kakubi ngeveki phambi kokuba yonke into ive inzima, ukuba uyazikhwebula kubantu kanye xa ubadinga kakhulu, ukuba ezinye iiveki zinemo osele uyibonile ngaphambili. Into ngokuqhelekileyo eshokoxekayo asiyolwazi. Yindawo ezolileyo yokuluqaphela.
Loo ngumsebenzi uKensora akhelwe wona. Akukukuxelela ukuba ungubani, kodwa kukukunika umbono ocacileyo weepatheni osele uziphila, ukuze inyathelo elilandelayo libe lula ukulibona.
Umgangatho wakho osisiseko, hayi owabantu
Izixhobo ezininzi zikuthelekisa nomlinganiselo: inani elifanelekileyo lamanyathelo, ubuninzi obuqhelekileyo bokulala, isikali esiqhelekileyo semvakalelo. Kodwa wena akuwona umlinganiselo. Iiyure ezisibhozo zingadlula komnye umntu zibe zinganeli komnye. Into ebalulekileyo yindlela namhlanje athelekiswa ngayo nokuqhelekileyo kuwe, umgangatho osisiseko owelelelweyo wakho.
Ngoko umbuzo uKensora akuncedayo ukuwubuza ayingowokuthi "ndiqhelekile na?" kodwa nguthi "ngaba oku kwahlukile kokuqhelekileyo kum, ngaba kufanele kujongwe ngokusondeleyo?" Loo nguqu, ukusuka kwisilinganiso sabantu ukuya kowakho, yiyo ento eyenza ipatheni ive iyinyani endaweni yokuba iqhelekile.
Indlela ukuqaphela okuba kukuqonda
Ukuzazi kuyanqwabelana. Ungeniso olunye lwedayari yiyo imizuzwana. Ulwininzi lwazo, zihlelwe ngobunono, luba yimo onokuyiqaphela. Iziqwenga zilula zodwa:
- Ukubhala idayari nokuzihlola kuguqula iingcinga eziluhlaza zibe yinto onokujonga emva kuyo.
- Ukulala, ukunyakaza, kunye nentlahla yosuku kongeza icala lomzimba lebali.
- Unxulumano luvala ibhulorho, kuba indlela ofikeleleka ngayo kwabanye iyinxalenye yendlela ophila ngayo.
Xa zibanjwe ndawonye, ezi zinto ziyayeka ukuba zizibakala ezahlukeneyo zaye ziqala ukuba ngumfanekiso. Ngeveki, uKensora unikezela ukufunda okunye kuyo yonke imihlathi: oko kubonakale kunceda, oko kubonakale kuxinezela, kunye nento enye ezinzileyo onokuyizama emva koko.
Inobubele ngabom
Ukuqaphela akufanele kuvakale njengokugada okanye ukukhalinyelwa. Ithoni izolile ngabom. Injongo yokubona ipatheni ayikokuzigweba ngokumelene nayo; kukuzinika indawo encinci eyongeziweyo yokukhetha into eyenzeka emva koko. Emva koko uvale i-app uphume uphile.
UKensora ukunceda ubone iipatheni zakho uthathe inyathelo elilandelayo elizinzileyo. Akayixilongi, ayifumani, okanye aqikelele naliphi na imeko yezempilo okanye yempilo yengqondo, kwaye ayilonkonzo yengxaki engxamisekileyo. Ukuba ufuna inkxaso ngoko nangoko, jonga iphepha lokhuseleko.